Holidays + Friends = FUN TIMES !!!

Each year we go on our annual autism camping trip at the Lion’s Max Simms Memorial Camp not far from Bishop Fall’s.  This was no different except for we had a friend join us.  This was something that was planned for a while.  Though, with her line of work, I didn’t want to get the kids excited that she was coming to camp with us, we weren’t sure if work would stop her from coming.  But she was adamant on coming.  And what a time we all had too.

I was going to write day by day of our time, but it would be too long, so I’ll write the highlights.  Of course a few days before she was to catch her flight here, she managed to twist her ankle on the only pebble on her usual jogging trail.  Which ran along side a train track.  You can imagine the tutting and shaking my head and giggling I done when she tweeted what she had just done, LOL.  I couldn’t help but to laugh.  But I loves ya darling. 🙂

Anyway, the kids at this point was out around the bay.  And if you’re from Newfoundland, you’ll understand that.  🙂  Denise was at my parents house in New Harbour (yes, that’s the right spelling) and Brett was with Paul’s parents in Heart’s Delight.  It worked out nicely that way, at least when the flight got in, we’d have time to ourselves and could relax,,, sort of. 😉

We got her back to the house, long enough for her to claim Denise’s room for the night, and then it was out for supper (or dinner as most people call it) to City Lights on Topsail Rd.  It was nice, just the 3 of us.  Unwinding after a long day.  Then we headed back home where Paul had planned on taking her for a ride on the quad.  But before they headed off, I brought out the ice cream cake we had for her.  Sorry I forgot to get a picture of it.  But it was decorated with purple trimming, her favorite color.

Whoops, all this time typing and you haven’t a clue who the friend was. 🙂  It was Mylene.  For those of you asking the answer is yes.  She’s the very one who my family and I took on a tour of St. John’s last year.  WOW!!!  It’s been a year already.  Geez, time does fly.

Anyway, Paul and Mylene got all geared up with helmets, boots and jackets for her trip up to see our cabin/shack.  Yes I have a picture of that, but sorry, it’s not going public.  I think I’ll have it blown up though and framed for the main wall upstairs, LOL

While they were gone, I straightened up the house a bit.  Though, the majority of it was done,, just a few odds and ends left to do.  By the time they got back, it was time enough for a cuppa tea or coffee, and a piece of the ice cream cake and a chat before we headed off to bed.

The next morning, Paul made us breakfast while I finished packing our clothes for the trip.  Our first stop for the day was at my parents house.  Because we had to pop in to pick up Denise, Mom suggested that we come out for dinner (or lunch as some may call it).  So we packed up the truck with our suitcases, Angel and Hame (typically it’s spelled Hammie, but Hame is how Denise spells it) and we were off.

Oh, I almost forgot, we had the official WWF belt with us.  Before their name changed to WWE.  Bret The Hitman Hart and Kevin Nash (Diesel) were here in Torbay on tour and the General Manager of the Delta Hotel was in attendance.  They had a prize for the lucky person who’s name they drew out of a bag.  And you guessed it, he won it.  Well, he gave us the belt on loan to take to the camp with us.  For the kids to enjoy getting their picture with it.  And it was a huge hit.  Not only with the kids, but even with some of the dads.  Although, I couldn’t help but to walk around with it draping over my shoulder. 😉

Though, before reaching mom’s, I just had to tell Paul to pull over and get a picture of Mylene with the Dildo sign.  Yes, it’s a name of a community not far from where I grew up, LOL.

Anyway, after our moose soup at mom’s and some pictures that mom and Mylene were taking, it was time to head down to Paul’s parents house for the night.  Unfortunately dad wasn’t home while we were there, so I told mom to pop down the shore so dad could meet Mylene.  We packed up Denise and headed off.

As we were entering Cavendish, I asked Paul to pull over on the other side of the road from the house I actually grew up in.  The house in New Harbour is new, I never grew up there.  So he stopped and I pointed to Mylene what room the windows belonged to in the front.  We didn’t stop there long, and it wasn’t until after we had drove off again that I realized that I didn’t introduce Mylene to Jason.  He’s a friend of mine I grew up with and who bought my house.  That’s another story in itself, lol.  Anyway, sorry about that Mylene, 😦

We got to Paul’s parents house and when Brett realized who was with us, he gave her a hug.  I’m not sure she was expecting that.  Not sure any of us were to be honest.  But Brett certainly has grown.  And I don’t mean in height, although he’s way taller then I am now.  But I mean in words and being more aware of his surroundings.  This was the summer where Brett was going to shock and surprise us all. 🙂

After the sleeping arrangements were taking care of, Paul and I took Mylene to meet his grandmother.  We weren’t there that long before Paul’s aunt and uncle popped by.  And it wasn’t long after that when Paul got a call that my parents were there.  So we said our good-byes and headed back to the house.

It doesn’t happen that often when we get both sets of grandparents in the same house, but when it does, you can bet there’ll be laughter.  Especially with Wayne’s jokes.  They are not that funny, but you laugh because he’s cracking up laughing at his own jokes. LOL.  I’m not sure how long my parents were there for, but I know it was a great time.

Well, after they were gone, it was time to hit the bunks as well.  We wanted to get on the road as early as possible.  Mainly cause we wanted to make a few stops along the way.  We said our good-byes to the in-laws, made sure Hame (Hammie) was settled into the room for the while we were gone.  Yeah, we had Paul’s parents look after the pets while we were at camp.  We were staying inside this time as we had the camper sold, it was much easier this way.

Next morning….

After we helped clean up from breakfast, I started handing Paul the suitcases to be packed in the back of the truck so we could head off.  It was supposed to rain that day,, more like drizzle here and there, so Paul had to put all our suitcases in individual garbage bags to keep dry.  As well as cover it all with a tarp.  With all 5 of us aboard the truck, we said our byes and headed off.

We were making good timing.  We were able to make a couple of stops.  One was Goobies, the other was Gambo.  Our last stop before the camp was to Gander.  Typically we go to Mary Brown’s for some chicken, but we were hoping to meet up with a couple of other friends at McDonalds.  I know, I know.  Trust me, I’d much rather have gone to Mary Brown’s.  Anyway, after our late lunch, we headed to a liquor store to pick up some goodies for camp.  Friday and Saturday nights are reserved for partying.  Especially after the kids are in their beds.  And as I’m the Camp DJ, I was all pumped in getting the party started. 😀

We found the store, which is attached to Dominion (grocery store), because I had to pick up a few things for Brett.  Then Paul caught up with me.  He wanted to get a cod’s head.  Our plan was to screech in Mylene. 😉  Unfortunately, they didn’t have any, so we had to settle for a salmon’s head instead.  It still served it’s purpose. 🙂

Then we were off again.  And no sooner were we on the dirt road headed to the camp, when Paul put on the brakes,,, unexpectedly I may add.  It wasn’t until he started backing back that we realized why.  MOOSE!!!!

Yep, a real one.  It was young though, but still very cool.  Paul gently got out of the truck, and I hit the button to put down the window for Mylene in the back seat to get some pictures,, and videos.  I’m surprised she had room on her camera by the time she left to go home again, LOL

We got to the camp and gave a look around to see what other vehicles were here.  Of course right away, the kids headed to the playground.  Which was fine, gave us time to look for Doreen, the lady in charge 😉  We did meet up with another parent though, but she hadn’t seen Doreen.  So we started to unload the truck to the usual rooms we claim every year.  The best part was that we were the only ones in that section.  Which was great, it gave us some extra privacy.

Well the whole weekend was amazing.  Mylene was enjoying her time with the families, especially the kids, LOL.  And the best of all was the fact that Brett was very social this time.  A parent seen Brett walking about and said “Hi Brett.”  With his shock, Brett answered back “Hi.”  We weren’t there to see or hear this, the parent told Paul after the fact.  But hearing that, it was a WOW moment.

Compared to last year where all he wanted to do was to stay in the TV room off the cafeteria, every announcement of a craft, he had no problems in leaving what he was doing and join in this time.  And especially if someone changed the channel on him.  He would have been very pissed off that the only way to calm him down was to put the show back on that he was watching.  This year, if someone came in and changed the channel, it was like ‘oh well’, and he’d be found on the merry-go-round.  Well there or the swings.  Like I said,, Brett has changed so much this past year.  We’re not sure if it’s cause he’s getting older and thus more mature, or if it was for the fact that Mylene was there experiencing his camp with him.  We’re going to say it’s cause of Mylene, 🙂

It’s hard to figure out with Brett who he’s going to latch onto, but when he first met her last year, he would smile when we’d mention her name.  Even showing him pictures and asking him who it is, he’d smile and say her name.  And correctly at that.  🙂

Besides Brett’s transformation, we also screeched in Mylene.  That was so much fun trying to get everything ready for it on the sly, lol.  But we managed to pull it off.  She was so overwhelmed with what we were doing that she started to fill up.  Of course I felt my eyes getting a little teary, but I managed to wipe the tears away without anyone seeing me, 🙂 I hope.  It was an awesome time, one that I’m sure I’ll tell over and over to whoever will listen, 🙂

But, I’m sorry to say I don’t have any pictures.  I know, my bad.  I’ll get some from Mylene when I chat with her again.  Lord knows she’s took enough, LOL  And you can pretty much bet that she’ll have some up on her blog.  The only picture I was able to get was of Brett showing off the WWF Championship Belt.Brett with the WWF Championship Belt

I probably missed some things, and if I did, I’ll make notes for another blog.  But for now, I’ll end it right here.

To Mylene; I want to tell you how much I enjoyed having you share our holiday with you.  Our first meeting last year was nothing compared to this one.  Taking the time out of your schedule to join us on our annual camping trip meant everything to me, especially the kids.  You’re an awesome friend, one I’ll treasure forever.  So this video is for you.  I’m getting there with accepting compliments, and I think this video says it all.  Thank you Mylene, for being you, 🙂

K, xoxo

Best Vacation Ever !!!

Well to say that this was the best vacation ever is an understatement.  Although, I can’t rule out all the vacations we’ve had with the kids.  They in itself are great.  Spending time with the kids are always great, but this one was more special.  Mainly cause this was the first one that it was just me and Paul.  We never had a proper honeymoon, so we used this trip as the honeymoon we should have had.  As of right now, we have been married for 16 years (17 in September) and we figured it was high time we made time for ourselves.  Although, having a child with special needs, it’s never easy to make time for your own self, let alone time for each other.  But we figured that where Brett is 14 now, and a bit more understanding, we would use this time to get away.

We had the in-laws come in on a Thursday, that way she was able to see the routine I do with the kids in the mornings.  Well for Friday and Monday anyway, then she would have to do it for a week on her own.  Albeit, dad in-law was here to help,,, sort of.   But to help Brett a little more, I had circled the 12th on his spiderman calendar with “mom and dad gone on trip” and I circled the 19th with “mom and dad come home.”  At least this way he would know that I’m going, but I will be back.  Apparently Tuesday in school, he had a bit of a cry.  Signed to his teacher that he wasn’t fine.  I’m figuring that he woke up, realized that I wasn’t here, and had a meltdown.  But after he cried a bit, he was fine again.  Bless him.  But it turned out alright in the end.  When it got to Friday, Brett would come home from school, look at his nan and ask “Airport?” 🙂

Anyway, let’s get to the vacation bit…

I found this picture by doing Google Earth.  You can basically see the layout of the resort.  The side of the resort where I marked “our room” was one side of the resort.  The other side with the bigger sleeping areas was Catalonia Royal.  They could come to our side and eat, but we couldn’t do it on theirs.  Different color wristbands for one.  And not part of our inclusive for the other.  But I loved where we were staying.  It’s an amazing place.  One where we’d go back again.

And here’s some pictures I took from around the different areas of our side of the resort.The rear view of the resortViewing the front of the resortThe pool and swim-up barThe pool againThe Bar inside the resort itselfThe GardensMore Garden pictures

Paul took this one of me getting my hair done.  It hurt a little towards the front of my head.  mainly cause of slight pulling, but it’s worth every penny.Getting my hair braided

This is the end result.Isn't it pretty ???

We mainly ate most of our meals in the Buffet restaurant, but we did try the Steakhouse, Japanese, and Italian.  Unfortunately, we didn’t go to the Mexican.  Mainly because I have a real sensitive tummy and we really didn’t want me getting sick.at the Buffet restaurantat the SteakhouseJapanese Restaurant

Now with this pic of the Italian restaurant, we are thinking that Marina went to the front hostess at the Italian restaurant and arranged for them to do a special setting at a table for us.  The Japanese and Italian restaurants were practically side by side, so she was able to see that we were going to do the Italian the next night.  We went to the hostess to see if we put in a reservation for tomorrow night or just be here in line-up for 7pm.  This is the table that we were guided to for our meal.Italian RestaurantSee what I mean when we think this was arranged???  She had decorated the outer parts of the table with little flowers.  I’m sorry I didn’t get her name though.  Hopefully when I email Marina, she can tell me who the young girl was.

We didn’t do any excursions on this trip.  It was solely for us to reconnect and to relax.  And we done that and more.  As much as we adore our kids, it was nice to just be able to spend the time alone.  Do what we want and not have anyone to answer for.  So we swam a couple of times in the pool and in the ocean.  That was so cool.  Albeit salty, but still fun.

And we plan on going back to the same resort.  We are already figuring out how to save up to go back and to have extra money with us to do some excursions this time.  Though, I think I’ll have to buy an extra memory stick for the camera for the 100’s of pictures we will be taking.  Plus, where next year will be the year I turn 40.  Yes I said it.  I’ll be 40.  And bless all my followers who thought I was around the 26 mark, love you, xoxoxo.  But having said that, I want to try and get a few friends to come and join us for next year.  I think it would be fun.

Anyway, to end off this blog, I’ll post one last picture that has a story to go with it.Recieved medals on our last night there.

This picture was taking by another couple we met up with down there who were from Newfoundland as well on the day we were leaving to head back home.  Our last day there we were trying to track down the whiskey I was drinking from the bar that I liked.  We were told that we could get it at either of the 2 stores they have there in the shopping center.  But when we went to find it, they didn’t have it.  We were told then that, that type of whiskey was exclusive for the bar only.  So we asked if it was possible if we could buy a bottle of the bar.  The manager (i think) had to ask someone else higher then him.  In the end, it was fine, but we had to go to the front desk to pay for it.  We asked how much, and when he told us the price, we jumped at it.

So anyway…  I know, trying to make a long story short is not possible, cause certain things happened in a certain sequence that will help make sense in the end,, I hope. LOL

Later that day, Paul found Victor (the bar manager) and asked for a small favor.  He was wondering if the guy who gets up on stage every night before the main performers does their thing, could say a few words about us.  What Paul had in mind, and the other guy was 2 totally different things.  I was filming the pre-show, when all of a sudden he calls out our names and asked us to come up on stage.  I turn red like an apple.  Good thing it was night time and you couldn’t see my face.  But on the video, when he called for us, you can hear me say, “what did you do?”  I knew he done something cause he was constantly asking me, “you still loves me right?”  If he said nothing at all, and only had that look, I’d know he had done something.

But it was all in good fun.  We had a great time.  It still feels like a dream.  Until I look at the pictures in our photo album and wish I was still back there.

Hope you enjoyed the read.  Sorry it took so long to write it, but reality, kids and housework needed to come first.  Thanks for popping by.

Love Karen

xo